Recovery is a relational process. Find a licensed MFT experienced in addiction support — for individuals, couples, and families navigating substance use and recovery together.
Addiction is not just an individual problem — it is a family system problem. It reshapes relationships, communication patterns, roles, and trust in ways that persist long after sobriety is achieved. Marriage and Family Therapists are uniquely trained to address addiction through this relational lens.
MFTs work with the person struggling with addiction and with their family — together and separately — to identify the patterns that sustain substance use, repair the damage caused, and build healthier systems of connection and accountability.
A Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor (CADC) specializes in the clinical and behavioral aspects of substance use — education, relapse prevention, and 12-step facilitation. An MFT brings a relational and family systems lens: how addiction affects the marriage, the parenting relationship, and the family as a whole. Many people in recovery benefit from both. MFTs are especially valuable when addiction has severely strained relationships or when family dynamics are part of what needs to change for lasting recovery.
Therapists specializing in addiction use several effective modalities — often tailored to the individual's stage of change and relational context.
Motivational Interviewing (MI) is a collaborative, person-centered approach that helps clients explore and resolve their own ambivalence about change. Rather than confronting or lecturing, MI draws out the person's own reasons for wanting to get well — making change feel internally motivated rather than externally imposed. It is particularly effective in early or pre-contemplative stages of recovery.
Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for addiction helps clients identify the thoughts, emotions, and situations that trigger substance use — and build practical coping skills to respond differently. CBT teaches relapse prevention strategies, craving management, and how to restructure the thinking patterns that sustain addictive behavior. It is one of the most well-researched treatments for substance use disorders.
Twelve-Step Facilitation Therapy helps clients engage meaningfully with AA, NA, or other 12-step programs as part of their recovery. Therapists trained in this approach guide clients through the spiritual and behavioral principles of 12-step work, helping them integrate peer support community with their individual therapeutic process for a comprehensive recovery plan.
Family Systems Therapy addresses the roles, rules, and communication patterns within the family that have adapted around addiction — and often help sustain it. It helps the entire family system shift: enabling patterns dissolve, boundaries are established, and healthier relational dynamics emerge. This approach recognizes that lasting recovery requires change in the system, not just the individual.
Daniel Grant, LMFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
📍 Phoenix, AZ | In-Person & Telehealth
I work with individuals and couples navigating alcohol and substance use. My approach combines Motivational Interviewing with family systems work to address both the addiction and its relational consequences.
Insurance: Aetna, BCBS, Cigna
Vanessa Monroe, MFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
📍 Denver, CO | Telehealth
Specializing in families affected by addiction — including adult children of addicts. I help families break generational cycles and rebuild trust after years of living around substance use.
Insurance: United, Optum, Kaiser
Kevin Addison, LMFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
📍 Nashville, TN | In-Person & Telehealth
I specialize in dual diagnosis — addiction alongside depression, anxiety, or PTSD. I help clients understand how mental health and substance use interact, and treat both at the root rather than in isolation.
Insurance: Cigna, Humana, BCBS
Lucia Vega, MFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
📍 Los Angeles, CA | In-Person & Telehealth
Bilingual (English/Spanish). I work with individuals and couples where behavioral addictions — gambling, pornography, screens — have damaged trust and intimacy. Recovery includes healing the relationship, not just stopping the behavior.
Insurance: Molina, Aetna, Out-of-pocket
Sandra Cole, LMFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
📍 Minneapolis, MN | Telehealth
I support people in early recovery and their families as they rebuild relationships damaged by addiction. I integrate 12-step facilitation with family systems work to create a comprehensive recovery environment.
Insurance: Medica, BCBS, Beacon
Elijah Brooks, MFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist
📍 Portland, OR | In-Person & Telehealth
My practice focuses on co-dependency recovery for partners and family members of people struggling with addiction. I help loved ones understand their own patterns, set healthy boundaries, and reclaim their lives.
Insurance: ODS, Premera, Out-of-pocket
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A CADC (Certified Alcohol and Drug Counselor) specializes in the clinical and behavioral aspects of substance use — education, relapse prevention, and 12-step facilitation. An MFT brings a relational and family systems lens: how addiction affects the marriage, parenting relationships, and the family as a whole. Many people benefit from both. MFTs are especially valuable when addiction has severely strained relationships or when family dynamics are part of what needs to change for lasting recovery.
Yes. Behavioral addictions share the same neurological reward pathways as substance addictions — and they carry the same relational damage. MFTs are trained to work with the compulsive patterns, shame cycles, and relationship fallout that accompany gambling disorder, pornography addiction, screen addiction, and other behavioral addictions.
Absolutely. Family members of people with addiction often carry tremendous pain, enabling patterns, and trauma of their own. MFTs are specifically trained to support families navigating active addiction, helping loved ones set boundaries, protect their own wellbeing, and understand the family system dynamics that often sustain addiction cycles.
Dual diagnosis refers to the co-occurrence of a substance use disorder with another mental health condition, such as depression, anxiety, or PTSD. These conditions often fuel each other — people self-medicate emotional pain, which deepens addiction, which worsens mental health. An MFT trained in dual diagnosis addresses both conditions simultaneously.
Yes. Under the Mental Health Parity and Addiction Equity Act, most insurance plans are required to cover substance use disorder treatment at the same level as other medical conditions. This includes therapy with an MFT. You can filter by insurance on MFTFinder to find an in-network therapist specializing in addiction support.